Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Man Problems

Ok, I am writing this post to vent. I am thoroughly disturb by the number of women going through mind blowing circumstances with men. Instinctively when we hear of these relationship horror stories we want to blame men, and jump on the " All men are dogs" band wagon, but this simply is not true. Not saying that men are perfect, and some how have no issues of their own to deal with, but it is high time us women start taking responsibility for the way that we are treated. There are good men, and great men even, looking for good women to wife up. Number 1 : Ladies get some standards and stick to them, Number 2: Keep your legs closed, there is just no way he's going to respect you and take you seriously if you are easy. In the words of Miss More Roses from Black Women Who Want More group, being Easy is EASY, try doing what's hard for a change.  Believe it or not, a man who loves you will wait for sex PERIOD. Keeping you legs closed is the BEST way to weed out the pretenders from the contenders for your heart. Try connecting with a man's heart, mind, and soul, instead of his penis right off the bat. Try attracting a man with your awesome personality and sense of humor, instead of your breasts and thighs. Now in today's society that's HARD. Again STOP BEING EASY!!!

 Stop over functioning and doing TOO much too soon, for someone you barely know. Love on yourself, and get your own self-esteem up before trying to go after a man, then looking to him to validate your own existence and SPECIAL-ness. Please don't chase men, if a man wants you he will hunt you down and pursue you. Even the animal kingdom demonstrates this, the male species always has to fight, dance, or flutter around in order to win mating rites with the female species. I really want to see my sisters in humanity reclaim their sacred sexuality and femininity.

If you need some help getting started on the road less traveled, and being considered a goddess instead getting treated like crap then finding yourself with the same jerk in a different shirt, I am going to recommend some required reading. Of course you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. You make the choice, what's it going to be. For myself, I'm choosing goddess status.

The Following books will enlighten you and get your mind straight, if you don't learn from this, then sadly, you will never learn, and you may just find yourself, a heart broken 50-60 year old women, bitter and worn out from destructive relationships. These books helped change my entire life!!

1.  Choosing Me Before We  You can get this for like $10 on Amazon
2.  Why Men Love Bitches
3. Why Men Marry Bitches
4. Mr. Unavailable and The Fallback Girl
5. I Kissed Dating Goodbye

Fall 2012 Fashion Trends | Boots

As you all should well know by now, I love Fall fashion. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Here are a few of my favs. i will be posting more as inspiration moves me. Toodles  <3 <3 <3
* This collection is from