Stop over functioning and doing TOO much too soon, for someone you barely know. Love on yourself, and get your own self-esteem up before trying to go after a man, then looking to him to validate your own existence and SPECIAL-ness. Please don't chase men, if a man wants you he will hunt you down and pursue you. Even the animal kingdom demonstrates this, the male species always has to fight, dance, or flutter around in order to win mating rites with the female species. I really want to see my sisters in humanity reclaim their sacred sexuality and femininity.
If you need some help getting started on the road less traveled, and being considered a goddess instead getting treated like crap then finding yourself with the same jerk in a different shirt, I am going to recommend some required reading. Of course you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. You make the choice, what's it going to be. For myself, I'm choosing goddess status.
The Following books will enlighten you and get your mind straight, if you don't learn from this, then sadly, you will never learn, and you may just find yourself, a heart broken 50-60 year old women, bitter and worn out from destructive relationships. These books helped change my entire life!!
1. Choosing Me Before We You can get this for like $10 on Amazon
2. Why Men Love Bitches
3. Why Men Marry Bitches
4. Mr. Unavailable and The Fallback Girl
5. I Kissed Dating Goodbye